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Hollie Raux posted a condolence
YO! Missin ya like crazy brother. Wish this wasn't real. You made me the crazy girl I am today and I thank you so much for it. No one in the world had as much influence on my life as you did. From playing baseball, what kinda sneakers I wore, what teams I'd root for.. How embarassing that I actually rooted for the niners at one point! So many other things...I would even steal your jokes and call em mine. Even had the neighborhood callin me Dan cause I wanted to be just like you. I promise I will make sure LD is just like us! Don't know how but I promise I will get thru this and take care of Mare and Jean.I know ya were always worried about me and acted like my body guard but don't worry.. I still got Joe to take care of anything I need..I hope you rest in peace and I will see ya again someday. You will be forever missed by us all. Thank you for all the laughs,tears,fights and embarassing moments we shared for the last 26 years. I'll never forget any of them. And don't worry I'll celebrate your bday every month and when LD is old enough we will carry on that tradition. My best friend in the whole world, my idol. Love you Dano. Till we meet again,Later dude
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Jonathan Howe posted a condolence
I didn't know him, but to die shortly after having a son. i'm sorry for your loss.
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Deanna Simpson posted a condolence
Hollie & Family ~ My heart aches for you! I knew Dan in HS & attended a couple parties he was at. From what I knew of him, he was a great guy & loved to have fun! I will always remember him with a huge smile & great sense of humor. Sending my thoughts & prayers to you & your family. I hope you find the strength you need to get through this difficult time! <3 xoxxox
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Bernadette Difillippo posted a condolence
Cathy and family. I am so sorry for your loss. I am here if you ever need me. Hang in there please. I didnt know Dan but you are still my family and I feel your pain.
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Verno posted a condolence
Dano where to start so many nights of hanging out in the garage when I was pregnant for your little Merc i know i made the perfect choice in a godfather for her and that was you. You and Aunt Mary were the only 2 people allowed to call me Vern I absolutely hated that name now I would give anything to hear it come out of your mouth right now. I miss you Dano until we meet again I love you always and forever I'm gonna take the last words you ever said to me I'll see ya around kid
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James White posted a condolence
Dan,
Our entire family loved you and we all will miss you very much. Mary will miss sharing Mike and Ike and Hot Tamales with you. I will miss our trips to Saratoga and that special laugh you had. Brian and Allison loved you like you were their own brother. You were the love of Lindsay's life and her heart is aching. She misses you more than anyone will ever know. Daniel will be well taken care of and will never want for anything. He will always know what a special father you were. It is the very least we can do for you.
Love and miss you
Jim White and family.
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Tammy Congdon posted a condolence
Dan , you were someone special you used to call me Aunt Tammy .I will forever miss you and your smiling face. You were a shining star in everyone who knew you .. Cathy my heart goes out to you , if you need anything I'm there for you. Love You Tammy
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Jamey Jacquays posted a condolence
"Dan the Man" you truly will be missed. Your smile, laugh and your dedication to your family is what I will remember the most. It is too sad to see you leave this earth so soon. May you rest in peace, absolute peace!
Love You Man
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Rick & Dale Ritton posted a condolence
Dan lived across the st. from us for a few years. H e was a great neighbor and friend, always laughing, willing to help do anything we were working on. We will miss him with all our hearts and all of our love.
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Mary Tubia posted a condolence
Oh my Boone, I love you so much. There are no words to describe the ache that you have left behind. I have loved you since your first breath and I will love you until my last. You were a joy to so many. I can hear your laugh. I can hear you walk in my door saying "Hi Mrs. T", and giving me a hug. I see you in your beautiful boy. I will take care of your mother, brother and son. Daniel will live a beautiful life. That's a promise from me to you. I have another promise: when I get to see you again, after I hug you and kiss you all over your face, I'm gonna slap the shit out of you for doing this to us. Until we meet again, my sweet bonus child. Aunt Mary (Mrs. T.)
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Kelly D posted a condolence
Dannn!!!! Way too many memories for the amount of years you have tortured me, and at the same made such a great impact on not only me, but many people!! We will all miss your smiling face and outgoing personality!!! I am lost for my own words,I hope you rest peacefully! Til we meet again!!
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Tammy & Karen posted a condolence
Dan,
This just doesn't seem real. I wish you knew how much you were loved & by so so many.
You were an awesome guy & an awesome dad. How you would beam whenever I would ask how Daniel was? Know your family & friends will keep your memory alive for Daniel.
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Tiffany Robinson (Doolen) posted a condolence
I didn't know Dan but I seen him in Ilion HS and he was a funny guy I hear. If I knew Dan we would probably get along.Its so sad too see someone like Dan go but he will be in a safe place where he will be loved and well tooken care of and don't worry he will be looking down on his loved one expectually his son. It's so sad too see Dan go he was a loyal father and person but anyways I wanna tell the family I'm truly sorry for your loss Dan will be missed. R.I.P. Dan
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Bill and Nicole Hewitt posted a condolence
RIP Danno...was glad for our morning hellos at pre k this past year.. love Nicki and Billy
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Darren Denicola posted a condolence
I miis you Dan you were like one of my little brothers you were always giving my father a hard time. i cant believe your gone. i will never forget you Dan. May the light of God shine on you. Rest in peace brother.
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Sandi Tubia posted a condolence
Dan, you were and still are loved so much, by so many! You were a gentle giant! I loved how any time I saw you, you would always hug me. Didn't matter who was around!
Just about 3 weeks ago, I was walking with my little ones, and a vehicle that I didn't recognize was coming down the street, blowing the horn like a crazy person. Next thing I know, there's your face leaning across the passenger seat waving wild and smiling away and yelling AUNT SANDI!!! That's my last memory of you. One I will forever treasure.
"Go rest high, on that mountain" Sweet, beautiful Dan! I love you, Aunt Sandi
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Courtney Valasek posted a condolence
Hugs and prayers to everyone during this difficult time. Dan was a great guy, always friendly to me whenever I saw him. May your life live on in your son, and may god watch over your loved ones as they mourn your loss. May you all find comfort in each other.
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Sara Congdon posted a condolence
Dan was such a good man and Great father he will be truly missed and never forgotten.RIP
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Heather Raux-Talarico posted a condolence
You were my big brother. And now your gone. I don't know how or why this happened and I can't seem to wrap my head around it to figure it out. Although we didnt get to hang out I have wonderful memories of you and will hold them dear to my heart forever. We will all do everything we can to make sure Daniel knows what a wonderful father you were and how much you loved him. You were a sweet, kind, caring, loving man and would give your helping hand to help anyone. I dont know how this could have happened to you. You were one of the greatest people I knew. You gave for everyone before you would do anything for yourself. I wish you had known how many people truly loved and cared for you. We will all take care of my mother and yours to help them through this, and to give LD all he can ever hope for or dream of in his life. I'll never forget you or the memories I have of you and your bright shining face that could light up a room with one smile. Rest easy with Grandma Kate but I hope she gives ya a good slap for doing this to everyone. Love you forever brother. Kid
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Gene D posted a condolence
"Ingy" was such a fun and outgoing guy. I have nothing but good memories of him from back in the day. Just a great person who could make anyone laugh. He was just so much fun to be around. You will not be forgotten Dano. Thoughts and prayers to his family, especially his son
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nancy kuzniak posted a condolence
danny i don't know where to begin. I've known you since a toddler could make friends! I have our preschool photo and our high school grad photo and will cherish them forever. I pulled our senior yearbook out and had to read what u wrote me because i knew it was something good and would make me laugh for a minute in the middle of this tragedy. I was right. you said
" sup' clance....it seems like yesterday we were little kids frollicking through the projects and we were the only people that took showers there! haha! and now we're big kids...later babe...danny boy!"
you were a great person and always made everyone laugh and never a dull moment! i love you like the brother i never had and always will! My mom and I will help your family get through this in any way we can. love u dan....until we meet again! rest in peace
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Delores Balio's niece posted a condolence
Cathy and family,
I'm so very sorry for your lose. Words can't express how deeply sorry I am for all of you. I'll keep you all and Dan in my prayers.
May God Bless you all.
Love,
Delores' family
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pat soldato posted a condolence
My heart and prayers are with you all at this time thinking of each and everyone wish I could take away your pain may god be with you all and lift your heavy heart time will heal. Love to you all
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BobbiLee VanGorder posted a condolence
Sorry for your loss of Dan. I knew him from High school, I graduated with him. He was a great man. He will be greatly missed by everyone.
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Dave Skramko posted a condolence
When I was in high school, I remember getting picked on, as normal, and Dan had the decency to tell the other people to stop. I remember how, after that incident, he would see me in the crowded halls of IHS and say "what's up, buddy?" I didn't know him that well, but the interactions I had with him had that much of an impact on me that I haven't forgotten it. It sounds as if he had that profound impact on all of you as well. May he rest in peace.
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Cheryl Mondi posted a condolence
My heart and my prayers go out to Dan's family. Dan was at my house a few times with Brian Kinney, and thought he was a very nice guy. I am lost for words, but know that I am feeling your grief, I also lost my son to suicide 2 years ago. I will pray for "Dano" may he rest in peace.
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Kate posted a condolence
I grew up with up with you, laughed with you and cried with you. Can't believe you're gone:(
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sue denicola posted a condolence
I will long remember Dan spending many days and nights with Jason & Adam.He was like one of my own. i remember seeing him at Ben's party with Daniel they had a good time. my prayers go out to Kathy and her family.
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Kim and Randy Bowman posted a condolence
Dear Cathy and Family,
We are so upset over what has happened! Cathy, I feel so bad for you right now. No parent should ever have to go thorough this kind of tradgedy!! I could not even imagine. Please if there is anything at all that we could do, let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless !!!!
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Pat Whalen posted a condolence
I remember Dan as a hard working, well grounded boy in high school and someone, who, when he grew up, always had a warm smile and a strong hand shake for me when we met in years after. I truly respected Dan and my prayers go out to his loved ones.
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Adam Denicola posted a condolence
I will forever miss you Dan. You and I have been the best of friends for 17years. I can still remember our first day in 7th grade. You and Chris Stone wanted to beat me up because I was the big kid form barringer road. Instead of fighting We became friends,best friends. Dan had such a big heart and infectious smile that could light up even the darkest night. We shared so many special moments together I loved him like my brother. I promise with all my heart and soul that your son Daniel was always know what a truly amazing person his father was,and that he was loved by so many. We love u Dano....
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AUNT NANCY posted a condolence
NEVER DID I DREAM THAT THE LAST TIME WE WOULD HUG EACH OTHER WAS WHEN I MOVED ON JUNE 7TH TO PA.
I WAS SO LOOKING FORWARD TO YOU, LINDSAY, DANNY AND ERIN COMING DOWN TO VISIT ME.
I ONLY KNEW YOU SINCE YOU AND LINDSAY BECAME A COUPLE. BUT, WHAT A HAPPY TIME IT WAS WHEN YOU TWO BECAME ENGAGED AND LATER TO SEE YOU BECOME PARENTS OF YOUR AMAZING SON, WHO LOOKED JUST LIKE YOU! IT WAS A JOYFUL TIME. AND BECAUSE OF YOUR LOVING, GENTLE WAYS I HEARD ERIN REFER TO YOU AS "DADDY"....WHICH TOUCHED MY HEART.
THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME OUT WITH SEASONABLE YARDWORK AND FOR YOU AND LINDSAY GOING SHOPPING FOR ME. I'M GRATEFUL FOR THE TIME YOU, LINDSAY, DANNY AND ERIN CAME UP TO DINNER AT MY HOUSE. WHAT A WONDERFUL TIME WE HAD.
I KNOW YOU KNOW HOW MUCH MY NIECE AND YOU LOVED EACH OTHER. SHE IS LOST WITHOUT YOU AND IN UNCONSOLIBLE GRIEF. I PROMISE YOU THAT I WILL HELP HER IN EVERYWAY I CAN.
YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. LOVE FROM AUNT NANCY
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Tammy Congdon posted a condolence
I will always remember Dan with a smile on my face.. Will miss him calling me Aunt Tammy even though i wasn't his Aunt . Loved him dearly and will miss him dearly... Cathy ,Joe and family I'm thinking of you during this sad time. Love you and praying for you all.
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doug &debbie rice posted a condolence
our thoughts and prayers are with the family, so sorry for your loss...
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Julie Leonard posted a condolence
OMG, Cathy, I have no words to help ease your pain....you have been there for me so many different times to help lift me back up on my bad days, that I want you to know that I'll always be here for you. I never got the pleasure of meeting Dan, but from the sounds of things he appears to be a lot like you. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Joe, and your entire family. What a beautiful young man you gave birth to Cathy, I love you heart and soul and if you need me, say the word, I'm always here for you. REST IN PEACE, DANIEL<3...God Bless you
All my love, Julie
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Sue Carpenter posted a condolence
Dan, sorry that this email is being written, I would rather see your smiling face and have you around the people who love you. I serve a BIG GOD and I know there are no accidents and that your passing is a reason for someone to get closer to the Lord. Your son and mom and "Mrs. T" will be looked after as well as the rest of your family. Everyone loved you and you will live on in our hearts forever.
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the frasier's posted a condolence
A FRIEND A heart full of love so genuine and pure, The loss of someone,So dear,is hard to endure. He touched the lives of many with wings of an angel. He will watch from above, Think of him often, feel his warmth deep inside,for he will watch over and always be by our side.
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Matt and Brandy Edmunds posted a condolence
May Dan rest in peace, free from any pain. Love you Aunt Mary....keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
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